Books for Family & Friends and Adult Children of Alcoholics
As you can see, this section is sparse.  We would welcome suggestions of titles about Family & Friends, and Adult Children of Alcoholics-Addicts that you found especially  valuable, particularly in a secular context.
 
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Adult Children: The Secrets of Dysfunctional Families, by John C. Friel

It is estimated that as many as 34 million people grew up in alcoholic homes but what about the rest of us? The authors provide a readable explanation of what happens to those of us who have had no alcoholism, but did have perfectionism, workaholism, compulsive overeating, intimacy problems, etc.

   

An Adult Child's Guide to What's "Normal", by John C. Friel

A practical guide to begin dealing with the pain and trauma of being raised in a dysfunctional family. Your parents may not have been able to teach you lifeskills but it is not too late to learn them now. This book will help the reader to learn how to respond to the challenges, problems and traps that they are faced with daily.

 

.The Alcoholic Family, by Peter M.D. Steinglass

This path breaking book paints a radical new picture of alcoholism, offering powerful evidence that most chronic alcoholics live out their lives in intact, relatively quiet family environments. The authors show, however, that living in an alcoholic family has profound effects on family members, both drinkers and nondrinkers.

Al-Anon Family Groups, by Al-Anon

This is one of the basic texts of the organization Al-Anon Family Groups, the pioneering "sister organization" to Alcoholics Anonymous providing support to the family and friends of alcoholics.    Based on the 12 Steps of AA, it does advance
 a religious belief system in overcoming addictions. However, there is much of value here.  As this the book comes from the tradition of "one alcoholic helping another" via local support group meetings, it has established its place in history, and certainly deserves a place in this secular community.